The MSN--Online Relationships
The MSN indeed enhances the interpersonal relationships. I have been using the program for few years. From the MSN 6.0 to the 7.0 beta test, the MSN has continuously improved its program and provided better service to serve the users. For me, the MSN enables me, on some degree, to keep in touch with my friends and family. From the very begining, there were only 8 people in my address book, but now, I already have 50 people. I don not talk to these 50 people at the same time, but as long as I want to talk to some of them and if they are online, I can immediately communicate and maintain our relationship.
However, even though the MSN is convenient for people to interact with each other through the Internet, for those who do not use the MSN like my parents, I only can keep in touch with them through the telephone. I feel that the online relationship tends to be shallow; for example, people tend to transmit simple and short messages to discuss with others on MSN. Although they can talk for a long time, they can not invlove the real face-to-face communication and they have limitation to express their true emotions online as the computer can not tell the person's really feeling. Moreover, Rowland (1999) points out that the computer can not feel a person's pain and love, it is not conscious; however, consciousness only exists in hunman. Only human can tell others their emotions. Comparing the online chatting and real face-to-face communication, I still prefer the real face-to-face communication.
Reference,
Rowland, W. (1999). Can the Net Think? Spirit Of The Web. (pp.333-342). Tornoto: Key Porter Books
